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10 Golden Rules of A New Relationship Every Woman Should Know.

The whole world seems to be new. Suddenly, you start seeing more stars in the sky and love music more than ever!

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Himanshi Lydia Singh

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You are in a new relationship. The whole world seems to be new. Suddenly, you start seeing more stars in the sky and love music more than ever! Your new relationship with your beau can go a long way depending on how you glide through in the beginning.

  1. Know his love language - Identify the love language of your partner. You should express your love how your partner wants to be loved. For most men, words of affirmation and even hugs work better. This is how they are made. But for your man, find out by asking him.
  2. Don't suffocate him - It reminds me of the Zindagi na milegi dobara wherein Kalki Koechlin starts acting possessive about her fiance. Akshay Deol scares him off. Exactly this is how women typically start acting when in a relationship. He needs time with his guy friends too.
  3. How often you should meet - Meeting often and not too often is the right recipe to keep the attraction alive. In fact, decide upon a day in a week and he will be pining for you the rest of the time.
  4. Don't talk of the future until it's time - They were just in college. They went on their first date and he kissed her. And, from that moment on she started talking about marriage. Result! He vanished. Maybe he could have stayed longer. Well! It's a relationship and it takes time. It's the start and it is not the time to start talking of the future or marriage until you both really feel you can spend your whole life together.
  5. Don't ask about his past either - Ask him or be inquisitive about his past unless you have the heart to listen to where he went with her and what he talked and what they did! How does it matter? It's over. You are His present and that's what matters.
  6. Think of his money as your money - He brings you to a store and asks you to pick up something. And, you put the whole place upside down trying fifty dresses in an hour. Wait! He is probably doing this out of love, but at the same time, he is noticing you too. So, as per dating etiquette, treat his money the way you would treat yours. Respectfully!
  7. Dress up for him - Is it something that needs to be told? Keep the sports tracks and t'shirt for the morning walks and gym. He is visual. He is waiting to see you at your best.
  8. PDA - Showing affection in public: Okay! All are different. Some may or may not like public displays of affection. And, If you are not comfortable with something, convey it straightforwardly.
  9. Should you say, I love you? - Not really! You are in a love relationship and it goes without saying that you love each other. This can be a bit tricky. Remember, Saying something stupid? is a duet of Nicole Kidman's with Robbie Williams.
  10. Sex - Is that all he wants? What is your opinion? What are you comfortable with? Keep all that in mind.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

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Himanshi Lydia Singh

Believer, mother, creative thinker, blogger and a compulsive entrepreneur, i love, live & write with passion.

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